Reclaiming my voice

I just don't get how some people don't understand the concept of two-way street. I don't like it when people give themselves excuses that other people are busy, that's why they don't try and make the effort to chat up with them, or catch up even with them. Those are simply excuses. But of course if they themselves are busy, I'd understand. But projecting reasons that doesn't concern them? Simply unreasonable. Because I believe that preoccupation is a constant. Aren't the rest of us equally busy too? But don't we try, even in the simplest gestures to give more attention to other things but work?

Relationships, by every definition and dimensions of it, work on this basis. If excuses such as "I won't ask you out, cos I just know you're busy" are being used multiple times, the only thing that is reflected is just how you simply don't care at all because you don't even try. I believe that if some people in your life mean so much to you, you try to make sacrifices, and most importantly, you make time for them. Even when it takes some time to wait, it's really worth it.